Most sexually active adults have used condoms, as they’re one of the most truly effective means for preventing unwanted consequences like pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections (STIs). Despite how many Americans use condoms on a regular basis though, there are a lot of myths about them that persist, and even may have the effect of turning people off to using them entirely, or using them improperly in a way that can lead to unintended problems later on.
So, we’re going to do a deep dive into the world of condoms, to help you learn more about how they’re made, how well they actually work, how to use a condom, and so much more. We hope that after reading this article, you’ll be more inclined to use them when engaging in sexual activities, particularly outside of a committed relationship.
Understanding Condom Basics
First, let’s cover the basics, for anyone who needs a refresher course. And besides, having a basic understanding of condoms ensures that individuals can make informed choices regarding their sexual health, safety, and well-being.
What is a Condom?
The modern rubber condom, as we know it today, dates back to the mid-19th Century. Charles Goodyear, an American inventor, is credited with developing the process of vulcanizing rubber in 1839, which eventually led to the mass production of rubber condoms. So, what is a condom, by definition? A condom is a sheath-like device that’s meant to be worn over the penis for the purpose of sexual activity, to prevent the transferring of sperm between both partners. Condoms achieve two things: they aim to prevent pregnancy as well as the spread of STIs.
Condoms are meant to be flexible, so that they can fit a range of penis sizes and shapes. Keep in mind that they come in a large number of options, like different sizes, materials, and so on.
What are Condoms Made of?
Condoms, like we said, are made of different materials. It’s of critical importance that the material is nonporous, so that no sperm leaks through, and are durable, so that the chance of them ripping during sexual activity is kept to a minimum. They also, again, need to be flexible, to accommodate different penis sizes/shapes, and allow for movement.
Materials and Construction
There are some more common materials you will find, so let’s go over them now:
- Latex: The most common option by far, thanks to its durability, its nonporous nature, and its flexibility. Basically, it’s the most reliable material to date. However, some people’s skin is sensitive to latex, and get a reaction that includes irritation and itching. If you are sensitive to latex, consider another option.
- Polyurethane: An alternative to latex that feels very similar but is safe for those with a latex allergy. This type of plastic is also flexible, durable, and nonporous, so it provides the same benefits as latex.
- Lambskin: An animal membrane and is all-natural. People who are sensitive to the above materials prefer it, as do those who simply prefer more organic options. They are just as effective as the options above at preventing pregnancy, but they may not be as effective when it comes to preventing STIs. Also, while they typically feel better due to the thinner material, some people are put off by the idea of using an animal’s skin membrane.
Types of Condoms
There are many types of condoms beyond material, too. Let’s go into more detail.
Specialty Sizes
For those with above-average penis sizes, there are a number of condoms that come in larger sizes to accommodate.
Specialty Options
There are all kinds of specialty condoms out there, including:
- Flavored Condoms: These are condoms that are flavored, to enhance sensory pleasure during sexual activities.
- Ribbed Condoms: Ribbed condoms have a ribbed texture that may enhance pleasure for the other partner.
- Lubricated Condoms: Some condoms have a lubrication solution on their exterior, to aid in intercourse.
- Spermicidal Condoms: Spermicidal condoms are treated with a layer of spermicide, a solution that kills sperm on contact, to add to its protective qualities.
- Warming Condoms: Some condoms contain ingredients that produce a warming sensation which can enhance physical pleasure while increasing blood flow to the penis.
Importance of Using a Condom Correctly
Now, as you probably know already, there are right and wrong ways to use a condom. And, this is very important, as improper use can lead to a decrease in efficacy.
How to Use a Condom
Let’s talk about using a condom correctly, which involves putting it on in the proper way, because putting on a condom correctly is essential for its effectiveness in preventing pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections (STIs). Here are the step-by-step instructions:
- Check the expiration date: Make sure the condom is not expired. Check the packaging for the expiration date.
- Open the package carefully: Use your fingers to tear open the wrapper. Avoid using your teeth, scissors, or any sharp objects that could damage the condom.
- Check the direction: Determine which way the condom is rolled. It should roll easily in one direction. If you accidentally start to unroll it the wrong way, discard it and use a new one.
- Pinch the tip: Before placing the condom on the penis, pinch the tip of the condom between your thumb and forefinger to leave a small space at the tip. This space is to collect semen and prevent air from being trapped, reducing the risk of breakage.
- Unroll the condom onto the erect penis: While pinching the tip, place the rolled ring of the condom against the head of the erect penis. With your other hand, unroll the condom all the way down the shaft of the penis. Smooth out any air bubbles to ensure a snug fit.
- During intercourse, check for slippage or breakage: Make sure the condom stays in place during intercourse. If it feels like it's slipping or breaks, withdraw immediately and replace it with a new condom.
- After ejaculation, hold the base and withdraw: After ejaculation, while the penis is still erect, hold the condom at the base as you withdraw from your partner. This prevents the condom from slipping off and reduces the risk of spillage.
- Dispose of the condom properly: Tie a knot at the open end of the condom to prevent semen from leaking. Wrap it in tissue or a wrapper and dispose of it in the trash. Do not flush condoms down the toilet.
Condom Size and Fit
Knowing how to put a condom on is one thing. But again, it’s important to make sure that the fit is correct. If the condom is too small, it may stretch and rip, and if it’s too big, it may slide off during sexual activities. If need be, find a company that offers a sizing solution that addresses your needs, and make sure that it fits properly.
What Size Condom Do I Need?
The majority of condoms come in the same general size, and so we recommend going with a standard one, and adjusting the size only if needed.
Step 1: Measure Your Penis
To find the right condom size, you'll need to measure both the length and the girth (circumference) of your penis when erect. Use a flexible measuring tape or a piece of string and a ruler for accurate measurement.
- Length: Measure from the base of your penis to the tip.
- Girth: Measure around the thickest part of your penis.
Step 2: Use the Measurements to Determine Size
Condoms typically come in three sizes: snug fit, standard/regular, and large. Here’s a general guideline based on your measurements:
Length:
- Snug Fit: Penis length up to 5 inches (12.7 cm)
- Standard/Regular: Penis length 5-7 inches (12.7-17.8 cm)
- Large: Penis length above 7 inches (17.8 cm)
Girth (Circumference):
- Snug Fit: Penis girth up to 4.7 inches (12 cm)
- Standard/Regular: Penis girth 4.7-5.1 inches (12-13 cm)
- Large: Penis girth above 5.1 inches (13 cm)
Step 3: Try Different Brands and Styles
Different brands may have slightly different sizing, so it’s a good idea to try a few different ones to see what feels most comfortable. Some brands even offer size guides or sample packs to help you find the perfect fit.
How Should a Condom Fit?
A condom should fit snugly and comfortably on the penis to ensure both effectiveness and comfort, but not to the point that it’s hurting, or causing a decrease in circulation. It should not be loose, either.
- Too Tight: If the condom feels constricting or uncomfortable, it might be too tight.
- Too Loose: If the condom slides up and down or slips off easily, it is too loose.
- Breakage: Frequent breakage can indicate the need for a different size or type.
How to Know if Sperm Leaked Out of a Condom
Condoms are highly durable, but in rare events, they can rip or break. In this case, you should look for evidence by examining the condom after use, as tiny holes or tears may be visible. If you have any concerns, you may want to consider getting tested for sexually transmitted infections in the following weeks, and, if you’re using a condom to prevent pregnancy, consider using Plan B the next day.
Myths and Facts About Condoms
Now, let’s dive into some interesting condom facts, as well as some of the most common myths about condoms, and correct them.
Common Misconceptions, and Reality
We want to cover some of the most commonly cited myths about condoms to dispel any misinformation.
#1: Condoms are too small for some individuals, so they’re not comfortable.
Like we said, condoms are designed to be extremely flexible, and larger sizes are available for those with larger penis sizes. Basically, there is no individual out there who can’t find a condom that fits comfortably.
#2: Wearing 2 condoms is better than one.
Most people already know this is untrue, but for those who still believe it: Wearing 2 condoms is less effective than wearing one, as the friction of the two can cause both to rip.
#3: Condoms are 100% effective at preventing pregnancy and STIs.
Condoms are not, in fact, 100% effective at preventing either. They’re about 90% effective at reducing the risk of STIs, and 98% effective at preventing pregnancy. A backup method may be worth considering just to be safer.
#4: Putting on a condom can kill the mood.
Believe us when we say that there’s nothing mood-killing about taking a pause to put on a condom when things are getting hot and heavy. This shows respect for your partner and is an extremely normal part of engaging in sexual activities.
#5: Wearing a Condom Makes it Hard to Experience Pleasure
There’s a long-standing trope that wearing a condom means that both partners will experience less pleasure. It’s true that a condom may very subtly reduce positive sensations, but this claim is greatly exaggerated. Wearing a condom definitely does not prevent orgasm, nor does it greatly detract from feelings of overall pleasure for either party.
#6: Condoms are Only Necessary for Vaginal Intercourse
Many STIs can be transmitted from the penis to the oral or anal tissue, which is why condoms are important regardless of the form of sex that you will be having.
Scientific Benefits of Condom Use
Data has shown that condoms are phenomenally effective as a form of sexual protection. Keep in mind that most of this data applies to latex condoms, as they are by far the most common material.
Protection Against STIs
Again, wearing a condom can be a highly effective way of preventing STIs (sexually transmitted infections) including (but not limited to) gonorrhea, HIV, chlamydia, syphilis, and trichomoniasis. Keep in mind that not all STIs require the transfer of sperm, as some can be carried by simple genital contact.
Protection Against Other Infections
Research indicates that condom use is associated with a lower risk of bacterial vaginosis, a common vaginal infection. Condoms can also help reduce the risk of urinary tract infections (UTIs) by preventing the transfer of bacteria from the genital area to the urinary tract during intercourse.
Protection Against Pregnancy
Once again, condoms are also a highly effective form of pregnancy prevention, as they prevent sperm from entering the vagina. This, of course, requires that the condom is worn properly.
Non-Hormonal
Unlike hormonal contraceptives (e.g., pills, patches, injections), condoms do not contain hormones, thus eliminating the risk of hormonal side effects such as weight gain, mood changes, and increased risk of blood clots .
Condom Safety
Condoms aren’t as new as you may think. In fact, variations of the modern condom have been in use for centuries, although the earliest prototypes relied on animal-based materials like lambskin and other animal membranes, before the development of latex.
It’s safe to say that the condom industry has come a long way, and a big component of that is safety. Today’s condoms are far safer than the earliest models, which used potentially unhygienic animal products. While latex allergies exist, objectively speaking, the material is safe, as are all of the other condom materials found on the market.
High Quality Standards and Testing
Modern condoms undergo strict testing protocol for not only efficacy, but safety as well. Some components of this testing process include testing for comfort, to ensure that they don’t cut off circulation to the penis, and testing for reactions to materials, to ensure that they don’t injure the skin. Condoms treated with special materials, like lubricants or spermicide, must be tested to ensure that these materials don’t cause harm to the wearer or the partner.
Innovations in Condom Technology
Condoms have come a long way, which we referenced earlier. The market has evolved in all kinds of ways to improve itself, providing more pleasure, more reliability, and more safety. Let’s look at some of the ways in which condom manufacturing has come a long way.
Lubrication Options
Lubrication allows for more comfortable sexual intercourse, allowing the penis to glide in more easily. Besides that, lubricated condoms are also less likely to break due to friction and stretching. Today, you can find shelf-stable lubricants that are applied to condom materials to offer all the lubrication one needs. Most often, these lubricants are silicone-based, as they are compatible with latex material.
Advanced Protection
Advanced protection provides more protection against both STIs and pregnancy, often through the use of spermicide. Spermicide is considered topically safe for both parties, and it is a chemical agent that kills sperm on contact.
Enhanced Sensation
There are many specialty condoms nowadays, which include textures like ribbing, or warming materials, aimed to enhance feelings of pleasure. These materials and ingredients are tested to prove their safety, and thus, can add an extra element of stimulation to the experience.
Sustainability Efforts
We’re seeing more condoms using eco-friendly materials, as companies are coming up with materials that are more environmentally friendly, such as those that are biodegradable or make less of a dent on the environment to produce. Take note that most of these materials have not yet been tested to the extent of more traditional condom materials for safety or efficacy, but the initiative seems promising.
Condoms for Women
The first female condom, known as the FC1, was introduced in 1993. It was later replaced by the FC2 female condom, which has been more widely used since its approval by the FDA in 2009. These condoms are designed to provide protection against sexually transmitted infections (STIs) and unintended pregnancies. Female condoms are inserted into the vagina before sex and provide a barrier that prevents sperm from entering the uterus and helps reduce the risk of STIs by covering the external genitalia. Essentially, they can be a good option for women who want to take control of their own protection.
Now You Know More About Condoms
Condoms have been around for longer than many of us think, but they’ve definitely evolved along the way. Today’s condoms are safer, more effective, and more diverse than ever, with all kinds of specialty options available that can enhance efficacy or simply improve feelings of pleasure. Explore the wide selection of condoms available at HardNSoul, as we carry all kinds of sizes, materials, and more, allowing each person to find the condom that works for them and their potential partner.