Did you know that dildos are one of the most popular adult sex toys in the adult marketplace today? They are designed to address various forms of sexual desires. They come in various shapes and sizes and are manufactured from various materials; hence one can get one that suits him or her. If you’re just beginning to use dildos or enlarging your collection, information on the types and how to use a dildo in general may be helpful.
What are Dildos?
Dildos are also known as sexual toys that’re inserted into the vagina or the anus to give pleasure. These can be performed with a partner or alone and can be of various types and modifications. Vibrators don’t have any vibrating mechanism whereas some dildos can be interfaced with vibrators. It is almost always in the form of a penis but can be of any form or image one wishes to give it.
Benefits of Using a Dildo
There are several benefits of using a dildo like:
- Enhanced sexual satisfaction.
- Enhanced confidence
- Improved relations with the partner.
- Help in eliminating sexual issues or anxiety (i.e. sexual dysfunctions, like for instance vaginismus or erectile dysfunction).
Choosing the Right Dildo
Before discussing how to use a dildo, you’ve to start somewhere, and that’s actually choosing the right dildo. There are several factors that must be considered, and it is up to the consumer and their needs as to which one is the right choice.
Types of Dildos
As the sex toy market had come a long way, there are more variations of dildos than ever before, such as:
- Squirting Dildos: Have an ejaculation which’s more realistic and makes the play much more exciting. They commonly have a compartment where liquid can be placed and a squirting system to expel it.
- Vibrating Dildos: Have vibrational features to enhance stimulation. They can be battery-operated or rechargeable, and most of them have different functions.
- Realistic Dildos: Made to resemble a real penis and may also have realistic textures like veins and a prominent head. These can be made of silicone or cyberskin to give the user the feeling of the real thing.
- Glass Dildos: Are made from borosilicate glass and are well known for their soft and silky feel and different designs. They can be heated or cooled for temperature play, and they are non-porous and thus very easy to clean.
- Large Dildos: For those interested in something extreme, there are big dildos with bigger girth and length. They are produced in different materials and shapes to help those who want to challenge themselves.
- Clone-A-Willy Kits: Enable the creation of a personal sex toy that resembles the partner's penis. They include all the products required to make a silicone replica of the chosen object of interest to the client.
- Strap-Ons: These dildos have a harness that can be worn around the waist to enable the user to use the dildo without holding it. They are used in pegging and gender play, and anyone can use them regardless of their gender.
Materials and Sizes
Again, dildos can be made of silicone, glass, metal, and latex, among other materials. Silicone is widely used because it is hypoallergenic, soft, and very similar to the feel of real skin. Glass. Metal is rather firm and can be used for temperature play.
Another factor is size, which needs to be considered. New users would be comfortable with and perhaps prefer small and less thick dildos compared to advanced users. It is advisable to go for a size you’re comfortable with and have a certain level of experience with.
Features to Look For
In this case, you can opt for a dildo with suction cups for a better grip or a dual-density type with a solid core and a softer outer shell. Ridges or bumps could also be used due to the texture they create. If you're into harness play, then make sure that the dildo you are using is suitable for standard strap-on harnesses.
How to Use a Dildo
Masturbating with a dildo can be fun for one or with a partner. The following information will, therefore, help you understand the right techniques to use and the preparations you should make for the activity to make it as much fun as possible and ensure your safety.
Preparing for Use
This is where preparation comes in. It will ensure that a person has a good time and is safe at the same time.
Setting the Mood
Comfort also plays a big role, and it is recommended that the room be set up comfortably and relaxingly. Dim lights, nice music, and candles with a good fragrance create an atmosphere. Feelings are also very important, which is why privacy should not be violated in any way.
Hygiene and Safety
Cleanliness is very important when it comes to using a dildo. It is crucial to wash the toy with warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner before and after use. Suppose you’re going to use the dildo anally. In that case, it’s recommended that you use a condom and not use the same toy vaginally, as this can lead to infections. It also plays a role in reducing friction and improving the comfort of the user since friction is uncomfortable.
Techniques for Maximum Pleasure
Using a dildo effectively involves understanding your body's responses and experimenting with different techniques.
Starting Slow
However, when using dildos, it is advisable to begin slowly, especially if this is your first use. Gradually move the finger or toy in and out gently, gradually going deeper and thrusting harder as the person becomes comfortable.
Exploring Different Angles and Depths
It is possible to experiment at various depths and angles to find what suits you. The only part of the toy that can be angled is the tip – and tilting it up will stimulate the G-spot while going deeper will work other parts.
Combining with Other Stimulation
This just implies that the use of a dildo can be intensified with other forms of stimulation, for instance, stimulation of the clitoris or the use of a vibrator. You may want to use a dildo with a partner, introducing it when making out or during sex.
Achieve That Spectacular Orgasm by Having and Using the Right Dildo
Dildos are a fun and convenient way to introduce more options in the sexual experience. Whether for the first time or the umpteenth time, it is important to recognize the types, select the most appropriate one, and learn how to use it can result in a satisfying outcome. Again, always maintain consistency in cleanliness and safety, as well as try out new things and find what best suits you.